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NYC & Company streamlines wedding resources…

Friday, September 9th, 2011

NYC & Company, a key resource when planning an event in the city, has added a wedding resource guide to its website that answers many commonly asked questions and provides links to the city’s top vendors.  New York City is always an exciting venue for any event, and weddings are no exception.  Now with the legalization of same-sex marriage, we at Tip of the Tongue, look forward to creating more memorable wedding ceremonies and receptions.

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For info on same-sex marriage in NY, click here

For info on NYC & Company\’s \”NYC I Do\” campaign, click here

Standard Chicken & Beef Need No Longer Apply

Thursday, September 8th, 2011

I was talking to an event planner the other day about wedding menus.  He dismissed the idea that the food at weddings needs to be creative, innovative or even that good.  “All you need is a chicken and a beef dish and you’re set” was his cap to a list of reasons why nobody pays attention to the food at a wedding.  With a long silent pause, we sat there staring at each other – me staring because I thought he had to be joking, but he delivered with such matter-of-fact seriousness.

“Are you being serious?”

With one of those furrowed brows, a shrug of the shoulders, and a slight chuckle that implied I’m an idiot for asking the question, he said, “sure I am.”  Well, that ends that conversation.

The standard chicken and beef dishes have become completely obsolete in the catering world.  Today’s brides and grooms, particularly those living in one of the most exciting culinary cities in the world, are entirely savvy to what great food is, and not only that, most of them put food at the top of their list of most important things at their weddings.  Further, the chefs working in the catering industry, more and more, have been trained in the best restaurants around the city, country and world.  They bring to the table (quite literally) an approach, sensibility and skill that you would expect in your favorite restaurant – and the clients demand it, as well they should.

Sure, there is still chicken on the menu, and certainly beef, but the game has been stepped up.  It’s not a shrug of the shoulders and an “all you need is…”  It’s a carefully created, planned and executed menu that makes guests walk away talking about how great the food was anytime the wedding comes up in conversation.

Spring/Summer Digest – Before Fall Gluttony

Monday, August 29th, 2011

As Hurricane Irene blows through these last days of August, we here at Tip of the Tongue have taken advantage of a quiet weekend to reflect on what’s happened over the whirlwind of 2011 and what’s coming up in the traditional dash to the Holidays.

There were a record number of weddings and gala events packed into the Spring like tulip bulbs in a window box. We made the rounds at our favorite venues like the Foundry, Studio 450 and Ramscale with return visits to Midtown Loft and Gary’s Loft, plus made our North Shore debut at both the Chelsea Mansion and the Vaderbilt Mansion. While both weddings were “flavored” with a bit of spring rain, they both affirmed how much we love getting out of the city and how many truly unique and magical gems Long Island has to offer. And speaking of gems, we also had the pleasure of working at the Queens Botanical Garden where we used their own garden carts to feature an array of specialty drinks like Strawberry Watermelon Agua Fresca, and Cucumber Ginger Coolers spiked with gin.

Recent months saw the marriage of two of our nearest and dearest employees, Allison Cooper and Keshon Morrow. Allison has been one of our Wedding Coordinators and Event Managers for years while Kehson has been a mentor of mixology and a great man to have behind a bar. If you happen to be at one of our events with them be sure to join us in wishing them the best for their years ahead.

Their wedding at Gary’s Loft was part of what we called “May Mania”, but it also introduced a new service style we’ve since used a number of times since; at Ramscale-North Studio, Galapagos and coming up at Glass Houses. It’s a little treat we can Tapas-Mobile. We might play with that name a bit more but the concept is solid. Unlike our customary Tapas style, the Mobile version has no station. Instead large platters of assorted menu items are brought to where guests naturally congregate. With no fixed tables or assigned seating, guests are free to settle in wherever they naturally wish and within a few moments service staff bring the food to them to sample, share and enjoy without having to get up to go in search of where the food is. We’ve seen the concept work very well in those particular spaces where traditional dining areas and stations just don’t fit as well. If you’re trying to break the mold, maybe this is an idea that could work for you.

Finally, the Tip of the Tongue finally has expanded a little bit. We’re very proud to welcome our son, Jacob Max Charles Fagan, born April 10th. He’s a most wonderful addition. And we’re also very proud to say that after 15 years together, Tip of the Tongue Owner Scott Fagan and Pastry Chef Eric McIntyre were able to celebrate their own wedding on August 4. Our thanks go out to all who have worked hard to support Marriage Equality here in New York and around the country. It always amused us just how many gays and lesbians work to make dream weddings come true, yet are denied the right to marry themselves. Our application for a wedding license was captured on film actually in a story done by NY1 News.

So, as the summer gasps its last and the seriousness of September descends upon us, we hope you’ll join us in a congratulatory toast to the many achievements of the seasons just passed and then enjoy a fortifying draught as we press on into the unknown of the seasons ahead, wishing all of us the best.

Harvesting for September

Sunday, August 28th, 2011

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One of the best things about September events is the amount of fruits, vegetables and flowers in harvest.  The Greenmarket bursts with delicious vegetables, a huge selection of fruits (hello tasty pastries), and vibrantly-colored flowers.  Although it’s always sad to say goodbye to the summer as of Labor Day weekend, our menus always seem to come a bit more alive during this time.  And the good weather doesn’t stop – often it actually gets better.  The next round of weddings is upon us…

Spectacular New York City Event Spaces

Sunday, March 27th, 2011

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One of the many advantages of having your wedding in New York City is the spectacular event spaces you have to choose from – spaces that are blank slates where you can go in and customize the aesthetic just the way you like it.  The above photos come from our most recent wedding at Studio 450. With sweeping views of the city, the Hudson river and New Jersey, this space is one of the city’s best.  With its New York City-loft-space character, it’s always fun to create a new environment for each of our couples.  And during the warmer months, the outdoor space is unbeatable for ceremonies, cocktail hours and after-dinner partying.  This wedding was the final wedding of the winter season with a hearty menu that included red-wine braised short ribs with root vegetables and quinoa, seared halibut with grilled polenta and minted peas (the first sign of spring!), and chocolate passionfruit mousse cake.  Next up, tapas-style spring wedding!

Planning for an event – your rentals.

Monday, March 21st, 2011

A few weeks ago, we made a short video discussing the typical experience of selecting rentals for an event. With help from a Soho showroom, Broadway Famous, we walk through all of the typical, but complex choices you’ll make in planning for your party.

Brides Get a Bad Rap

Friday, February 11th, 2011

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The question I get asked the most when telling people we cater a lot of weddings is “do you always deal with Bridezillas?”

Thanks in large part to the reality shows all over cable, brides have been effectively mis-characterized as unreasonable, irrational, and indeed, irritating women.  Simply by planning their weddings, they’re assumed to be impossible.

But our experience has been just the opposite. In fact, we have grown to love not just catering weddings, but the brides (and grooms) for whom we cater and plan.  Our experience in helping our brides realize their vision for their big day has been one of the most rewarding parts of running our business.  Our brides have consistently been reasonable, creative, mature and thoughtful women, interested in organizing an event for their family and friends with fantastic menus, creative signature cocktails, specialty desserts, fun music and a memorable atmosphere.  Working with them has been fun, exciting – simply a pleasure.

I understand why the bride shows appeal to audiences.  I get it.  I understand the draw to reality television.  The more irrational the participants = the more dramatic = the more appealing the show.  In fact, I was on a reality competition show for pastry chefs, and I quickly began to realize what the producers and directors were looking for.  Although I won the competition, and the experience was fun and rewarding overall, I quickly became aware during the taping that I didn’t make for good reality television.  One of the directors became increasingly and clearly irritated when I was unwilling to bad mouth my fellow competitors, create drama (where there wasn’t drama), or lose my cool in the kitchen.

I suppose my brides, who keep their cool throughout the planning of their weddings, would not make for good reality television either.  And they certainly wouldn’t qualify as Bridezillas….so, no, to answer the question, we don’t always deal with Bridezillas, or ever…..

Just Settled Down for a Long Winter’s Nap

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Napping, or at least settling down for a long catch-up on life, is the typical order of the day for our industry’s “Quiet Season” which lasts from Christmas to St. Patrick’s Day (aka “winter”). There are some exceptions like Winter Fashion Week or the odd dinner party, but for the most part, from the winter solstice to the vernal equinox, a caterer looks to reconnect with family, friends, maybe see a movie or take a vacation and to work on those 10 lbs. gained since Thanksgiving.

 

But not this year.

 

A call came in on December 30th for a wedding to be held just over a week later on January 10th and so our “long winter’s nap” was over before it even began. Not that we’re complaining. It’s a special point of pride to know that we can pull a wedding together from scratch in 5 business days. And between snowstorms we had tasting, after tasting, booking April 24th, June 12th, September 11th and October 23rd in rapid succession. After such a extreme 2009, it was a massive relief to think 2010 could swing the opposite way. Then of course we had another wedding on January 30th, followed by February 20th and another on February 28th.

 

Sure that 10 lbs. turned into 15 and friends haven’t called in weeks, but the dead of winter 2010 has been wonderfully alive and kicking (as opposed to the dead of winter 2009, which was not just dead, it was decomposed) and like the athletes racing down the mountains of Vancouver’s Winter Olympics, it’s been a thrilling ride.

 

Thankfully 3 out of 4 of these weddings took place at The Foundry, by now our unofficial second home, and with couples that were excited to try out new menu ideas and innovative layouts. The lone exception was at Ramscale Studio – another one of our favorites, where we had the distinction of being the first to plan an event in their newly renovated space. We’ve also been advising them on further renovations that will significantly reduce the cost of kitchen rentals. 

 

What’s everyone been eating? Our signature Anise-Scented Braised Short Ribs with Root Vegetables have almost become a compulsory but with twists like Herbed Spaetzle or Lemon Quinoa giving the crowd an extra something to talk about. Seared Long Island Duck Breast has become the new poultry of choice for its deeper flavors and richer color, but even a few chicken dishes we’ve served have delighted fans by keeping the skin on (gasp!) and a wing bone in as the classic French “Supreme”. As for seafood, raw bars starring local Oyster Bay oysters and fresh Gulf shrimp, soups highlighting mussels and clams, and entrees featuring grilled halibut have diners doing more flips and spins than Shaun White in his Double McTwist 1260. 

 

Maybe it’s been the frequent heavy snowstorms (starting on the winter solstice) or the collective excitement of the Winter Olympics, but whatever the source, there’s been an energy out there this winter that’s kept us happily on our feet. Maybe we’re all waking up from the numb slumber of 2009, refreshed and ready for better days to come. I know I’m ready. Besides, there’ll be time to nap in July.

The Fading Folly of Fall

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

October is one of those months that encourages delusion yet generates disappointment. (April is another). The delusion is the belief that it’s still warm enough for outdoor wedding ceremonies while the disappointment is discovering that (really) it isn’t. It seemed the every weekend in October was one weird cold front followed by rain which emphasized how much weather can affect catering. The weather served a good lesson for those planning catered events. From lavish weddings to “simple” corporate cocktails, the weather is that perfect proof that you can’t control everything and what control you think you have over your event, your wedding, your life – is really an illusion. What you think is control is really a lucky break that nothing happened to ruin your plans.

This might sound like a “half-empty” way of looking at things but whether you call the glass “half-full” or “half-empty” the reality is that within said glass, there exists half the amount you want. Such is the lesson we learn in coming to terms with the compromises of adulthood – making do with what we get whether it’s a freezing rain that forces a complete last-minute overhaul to your wedding or a howling wind that makes half your RSVP’s skip your event, and accepting the randomness of life; rolling with the punches.

That’s really the key to a successful event. We had a wedding recently where the bride forgot some special oil lamps she wanted on some tables. She was in her processional line-up before walking down the aisle fretting. I said, “Don’t let lamps be what you remember about your wedding day. Forget it, take in everything that’s around you right now and enjoy the moment.” No one misses what they don’t expect. That’s why we encourage our clients to save money by streamlining the bar, minimizing decor and dispensing with ornate table settings. It’s the moment your guests want to share with you and remember, not the silverware.

And speaking of control and disappointments, onward we maintain to the Holidays. November is half over (or half full depending on your P.O.V) and the last-minute scramble for corporate parties has begun; later than usual but it’s there. This year’s magic date? Dec. 17; probably the most in-demand date on the calendar. More people are trying to assert control over what happens that day than any other in the frantic weeks leading up to Christmas (only 38 more shopping days!). There could be a freak snow storm. There may be a massive recall of smoked salmon. The President could come into town and snarl traffic on top of a freak snow storm. Remember to roll with the punches and enjoy the moment. And make mine a double.

September to Remember. Onward Through October!

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

Despite the pandemic of gloom that 2009 will forever be known for, one bright spot, in fact the brightest spot (thus far) of the year was September, due primarily to the joy of 4 weddings.

To be fair, being fundamental to the happy memories of this life event for 4 very different couples wasn’t all that made the month so special. We also had a full-page article produced for the fall issue of Brides/New York magazine that taught readers how to evaluate their catering proposal, plus a flurry of events during fall Fashion Week for Cole-Haan and Lucky Brand. But more than anything it was these 4 wedding weekends that made last month a “September to remember.” 

September 6: Kilvert/Newman Wedding – Smack Mellon Gallery (DUMBO, Brooklyn)

We love coming into new spaces and this corner of the Brooklyn waterfront was a gem. As minimalist spaces go, this is already one of our favorites. The ultra high beamed ceiling and 20′ tall windows give the space a cathedral-like atmosphere despite its past life as a grain warehouse. There’s no kitchen, but plenty of workspace and the elevated circular bar we brought in coupled with our signature tapas-style meal service (as well as our signature passionfruit punch) infused the post-industrial chic with a relaxed elegance that kept the guests laughing, loving, drinking and eating until midnight. There was also a keg.

September 12: Licata/Gowdie Wedding – Ramscale Studio (West Village at the Hudson)

The second weekend in our month of matrimony found us back at one of our favorite Manhattan venues, perched high above the Hudson River Park, with views to make anyone fall in love with this city all over again. Love was definitely in the air that night, along with a heavy mist and creeping damp (just as it had been for our last wedding at Ramscale back in June.) It didn’t matter though, as the groom and more than half the guests were from Scotland, the murky weather made most everyone feel right at home. Again, it was a tapas-style affair, but this time sliders and ceviche gave way to Halibut fra Diavolo, Pizza Bianca and (seemingly endless) Grilled Lambchops. Not only did the lush spread distract from the weather, but the bar, stocked with six varieties of 12-yr. old Scotch had all the kilted groomsmen leading the crowd in a veritable Highlander’s Hora.

September 19: Kim/Wojaczyk Wedding – Pratt House (E. 68th & Park)

The mist of the moors finally lifted in time for our 3rd set of nuptials, this time at the venerable Pratt House, home of the Council on Foreign Relations. This preserved mansion from the Golden Age of New York aristocracy was our second debut venue and quite a debut it was. With a main kitchen that’s 3 flights below the main dining room and only the narrowest of hallways to use as workspace, we had to be even more organized and on top of our game than usual and as a result have been added to their exclusive list of approved caterers. The plated meal included a choice of Grilled Striped Bass with Roasted Cherry Tomatoes & Zucchini Farro Timbales or Crispy Long Island Duck with Brandied Cherries & Wild Rice and was well-suited to such a regal and traditional setting, but after dinner we created a 2-tier table display with an elevated round behind a double-crescent to highlight the contemporary flair of the couple and their square opalescent cake and variety of petit fours included Lemon Chiffon Tarts, Chocolate Passionfruit Bombes and Opera Cake Squares with Gold Leaf. It was an evening of resplendent glamour.

September 26: Berl/Roman Wedding – The Foundry (Long Island City, Queens)

Of all the fabulous venues around town, The Foundry is the one we always feel is our second home. Probably because it’s only a 10-minute walk from our kitchens. The kitchen space there can’t be beat and despite being a bit off the beaten path, there’s a splendid isolation about it that makes you feel like you’ve stumbled upon a secret urban oasis of weathered brick iron and ivy. Ending the month at The Foundry was definitely a high note, like winning the homecoming game and all your friends think you’re a hero. Our team had certainly put in the hours and for this Italian Countryside-themed family-style dinner we pulled out all the stops. A Salumi Bar produced in cooperation with our friends at Salumeria Rosi anchored the side terrace where we served bites of Frittata, Crositni al Fegatini and Arancini con Pomodoro beside classic Italian cocktails like Bellinis and Negronis and Italian sodas and beer. After cocktails all 126 guests moved down to the courtyard laid out in 3 parallel lines of dining tables, each running about 56′ long and enjoyed an amuse bouche of Italian Wedding Soup before digging in to a meal of Mizuna with Lemon Chickpeas and Ricotta Salata, Insalata Caprese with Balsamic Black Raspberries and Braised Lamb Shanks on Pappardelle and Fried Sage and endless bottles of a classic Chianti. The 7-piece band lifted the mood after a couple of teary-eyed toasts (endless bottles of classic Chianti will do that to you) and the night ended barefoot and drunk on Spiced Cupcakes, Affogato and Peanut Butter Semifreddos. And then it was October